Choosing to Simplify our Kids’ Birthday Parties and then Renting a Wallaby…

April 28, 2017


It was not intentional, but here’s the long story of how it happened…

Last year I threw my daughter a Fancy Nancy birthday party. Do they make Fancy Nancy party supplies? No, no they do not. The decorations were made. The games were thought up and brilliant. The food was good. I was exhausted, for like a month. I worked for hours on these hanging pouf things which according to Martha Stewart are simple. Well, they aren’t for me. I taped paper napkins into a table runner and then added ribbon on top of that. I hauled our serving dishes to the church to have a fancy table set up.

It was beautiful, it was wonderful, we all had fun. That said, I never wanted to do it again. Ever. Nope. Too much work. I’m fairly certain that all the decorations were unnecessary. Yes it looked fantastic. But it would have been just as nice without all that. The above picture are napkins that I taped together in that pattern and accented with some dollar tree ribbon. It was a beautiful table runner. A friend gave me the glass bottles so I put glue on the bottoms and sprinkled them with glitter. For the flowers, I wrapped dum dums with crepe paper and bunched it to look like flowers. The photo wall was a dollar tree table cloth, a birthday banner, and dollar tree feather boas.


The activities were by far my favorite part. It was also the least expensive part.

Game: the kids assigned the words “Plain” or “Fancy” to various objects.

Activity: make your own bracelet center. This was super simple, pipe cleaners and pony beads, but the kids had a great time with it.

Storytime: My husband read them a Fancy Nancy story. That was it, but it was great. They all seemed to enjoy it and so did we.

Cheap Kid Party Tip: Read the birthday child’s favorite book to the kids! 

The budget was the thing that kind put us over the edge. For decorations I was able to borrow a lot from a dear friend, yet I still spent around $50-$70 dollars. Food was around $120. Then of course there were party favors and the amount that we spent on her presents. It’s a chunk of change to spend right before Christmas!

This year I was going to combine our childrens parties into ONE big party. The focus would be on having our extended family come into town and visiting. It would be low-key and wonderful.

Or would it?

At the beginning of the summer we found out about an educational zoo event at our local library. It was so much fun. We were able to learn about and even touched animals. This included a sloth!! If I could find a picture of this I would post it. Unfortunately we switched phones since then. 🙁

When I started looking into party options for my dual birthday bash I discovered that you could do one of these educational presentations at your church! Okay so when I say “discover” I mean asking politely.  The animals included a snake, an alligator, a chinchilla, a tree frog, and a WALLABY. Yup a wallaby hopping around our fellowship hall. It was kind of amazing.




Was it low-key? Nope. Was it super affordable? Actually it wasn’t bad. Since I was paying for entertainment I didn’t decorate much. I used a dollar tree tablecloth and sat cupcakes out on a table. Then I sat out some books for the kids to read about the kids current favorite subjects (winter and oceans). For food we did frozen lasagnas and bread from Sam’s. We probably spent around $100 on food. I have a hard time spending less when our families all come in to town.

It was hard to be able to visit with our family that we only see two-three times a year. So that I do regret. Having just one shindig didn’t make it less stressful, it just kept the stress to one event. I’m pretty sure next year I will try for two events. Or maybe not do a kid party. We’ll see. It’s hard when we have so much fun.  I do want to be able to talk to the people that we don’t see as often. That’s hard when there’s a lot of people everywhere.

I love making a big deal about birthdays. I guess because growing up my mom always made a big deal about mine.

One thing I love about the above parties is that they are a little outside the box. They have fun, educational activities. Reading a book at a birthday party is simple and kids LOVE it! Why not do it?

What are your favorite party activities? How do you celebrate birthdays?

Some helpful Party planning things I came across:

Laura’s Crafty Life Party Punch recipe

At Home with Natalie – A Frozen Party

Frugal Living Mom’s Throwing a kids party for under 100 bucks

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